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<title>Féline na Coille | Updates</title>
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<dc:creator>Féline na Coille</dc:creator>
<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2026 17:11:18 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Author&#39;s note </title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 3 Jun 2026 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<content:encoded>&lt;![CDATA[ &lt;p&gt;I write to invite you—&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; to look closer,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; to question,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; to confront what has always been there. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you’re here, you’ve already felt it. That’s enough. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Comfort is natural.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; That’s what makes it powerful. It keeps things in place.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; It keeps you from asking why. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And it works.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Quietly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Until you stop noticing. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most people do not want truth. Not fully. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;They want something gentler. Something easier to carry. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Because reality, in its very essence, can become too heavy to hold. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So we reach for softer things— distortions, fantasies, careful omissions— and call them peace.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Call them normal.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Call them happiness. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I’m not here to support that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; I won’t minimize my feelings. I won’t reduce my experiences. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This story is mine. But it’s not just mine. It’s all of ours. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What’s here wasn’t erased— simply buried.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Kept just below the surface. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You’ve felt it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; The pause.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; The tension.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; The moment something didn’t align. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You moved past it. But it stayed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Who am I to question your ability to feel it,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; to understand it,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; to face it? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Who am I to decide what you can hold? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is an unraveling.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Of systems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Of expectations.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Of what you were taught to accept.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Of a reality many women live every day, without it ever being named. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I won’t label this. I won’t soften it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You don’t need me to.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; You already know what this is. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This isn’t about answers.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; It’s about whether you look away. Because even now—&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; something in you may try to. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Notice that. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You were never unaware.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Only unconfirmed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; You were never meant to stay contained. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If this feels familiar, it’s because it is. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The only question left is whether you face it— or return to what kept it hidden. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That choice is yours. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wherever you find yourself, whatever choice you make, I see you. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;~Féline &lt;/p&gt; ]]&gt;</content:encoded>
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